10 Tips to Help you Conquer Imposter Syndrome

by Startacus Admin
Ever struggle with imposter syndrome? Ian Child, author and co-founder of training company propertyCEO shares 10 top tips that will help.
Albert Einstein, Serena Williams, Tom Hanks, and Lady Gaga are all famous sufferers of Imposter Syndrome. But they’re not alone – it is estimated that around 70% of the population is afflicted, with some groups being more prone than others, such as high achievers and entrepreneurs.
Symptoms of Imposter Syndrome include:
- Crediting luck for any success you may have
- Thinking that your peers are more capable than you are
- Feeling that overworking is the only way to meet expectations
- Not asking questions in meetings
- Downplaying your accomplishments
- Holding back from reaching goals you should be able to reach
We suffer from Imposter Syndrome because we have an innate fear of failure, usually when operating outside our comfort zone or in a competitive arena. We’re also acutely aware of our own shortcomings, yet when we look around us, we only see the success and confidence of others, which makes us feel like an outlier. But Imposter Syndrome exists only in our heads, and we can do quite a few things to make life a lot easier. Here are a few Imposter Syndrome coping strategies:
1. Recognise that you’re not alone
We often fail to acknowledge that other people feel exactly the same as we do. Social Media doesn’t help. Very few of us present an honest warts-and-all picture of ourselves. Our accounts are carefully polished; our recycling bins are rammed with dreadful images. But it rarely clicks that everyone else is doing the same thing. And feeling the same way. Do you know who doesn’t suffer from Imposter Syndrome? Genuine imposters.
2. Don’t be fooled by faux perfection
It is easy to overestimate how skilful or successful other people are. The reality is that everyone else probably feels just as insecure as you do. They’re likely looking at you and wishing they were as calm, confident and successful as you. Don’t compare yourself to others – they could be faking it much more than you are.
3. Note your accomplishments
Create a list that reminds you of how great you are, and that other people think you’re great too, and refer to this list when you have moments of doubt. This helps reframe your mind and evaporate less helpful thoughts.
4. Celebrate successes
Celebrating success helps dispel thoughts that we’re undeserving and gives us confidence in our abilities. Be sure to celebrate small wins as well as large ones. Imposter Syndrome sufferers tend to move on too quickly and treat wins with relief rather than taking pride in an achievement and properly marking it.
5. Share failures
We see other people’s successes but we don’t always notice their flops, whereas we always see our own failures. This gives us a poor perspective and makes us think of ourselves as being less capable in comparison. Opening up with others can help demonstrate that you’re no different and that everyone has the same issues as you do. It can often be easier to speak to strangers than those who know you well.
6. Reframe failure as a positive
Failure is not a sign of being awful. Failure is a sign that you’re trying to achieve something. You should give yourself credit for this. It’s not easy to succeed the first time out – ask any billionaire or successful inventor. But one thing is certain, if you never try, yes, you’ll never fail, but you’ll also never become successful.
7. Talk about it
Don’t be afraid to share your feelings about Imposter Syndrome with others – you may find they’re experiencing the same issues as you. This can give you more confidence and help you see that your thoughts are irrational – particularly when you talk to someone you believe has a good opinion of you.
8. Reframe your position
Fear can often be the prevailing emotion when it comes to Imposter Syndrome, but you need to look at situations through a different lens. Instead of thinking that any moment everyone will discover that you don’t know what you’re doing, shift things in your head. You may not know all the answers, for now, but you’re smart enough to figure them out – this is a far more empowering way of looking at your situation.
9. Stop chasing perfection
Being 99% good at something is not a failure. Appreciate that other people may only be capable of doing the same job to 70%. 80% will be good enough, and 90% will be better than most. Don’t think of this as lowering the bar – it’s simply reframing how well you’ve done and what you’ve achieved. Also, many jobs don’t need to be done to 100%. Perfectionists will spend time getting a job from 80% to 100%, but a smarter strategy may be to use that time to do a second task to 80% and get much more done.
10. Grasp life
Success in anything only exists outside your comfort zone, so you need to take action – feel the fear and do it anyway, even if your head is awash with self-doubt. As your comfort zone expands, have confidence in the fact that your levels of anxiety will reduce automatically.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Ian Child is a former corporate leader, co-founder of the training company propertyCEO and the author of ‘Your Own Personal Time Machine’, a guide to getting your life back, available exclusively from amazon.co.uk. in paperback and e-book
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Published on: 6th April 2023
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